Self Control:
If a child cried out in fear, he or she could give
away the position of a hiding Ojibwa family. Children were taught from babyhood
to keep still. If they did not have a reason to be noisy, then they were
to keep quiet. They were not allowed to get upset. Upset people can forget
themselves. They can shout. Anyone who lost his or her temper was acting
in a "bad" manner. They were sure to hear about it from grandfather in his
night messages.
Age Names:
The Ojibwa seemed to avoid using names. Older relatives
were called by their family names - Brother, Aunt, Grandmother. Children
had names that showed their position in the family. Their name might be Number
One Boy or Number Three Girl. These were not the only names people had, but
they were the first names they received. As a brand new baby, your name might
be Number Four Girl.
Charcoal
Sad Faces: The Ojibwa did not believe in spanking
or hitting children. Nor did they keep a child inside if they were bad. Instead,
they patted the child's face with charcoal, and sent the child outside to
play. Everyone knew that the charcoal meant the child was being sorry for
something they had done.
Toys:
Stuffed animals were usually the first toys
Ojibwa children received. They were made with animal hide and fur and sweet
grass stuffing. Girls had birch bark dolls. Mothers and daughters sewed clothes
for their dolls. They made doll dishes. They prepared doll meals. This was
the way mothers taught very small children the skills they would need when
they got older. The boys were given little bows and arrows, and instructions
from the men on how to use them safely and effectively.
Games:
The Ojibwa used games to teach their children many
things, including good behavior, safe behavior, and other important
manners and skills. These games were creative and fun, and are still
enjoyed today. They include Butterfly Hide and Seek, and Moccasin
Pebble. To learn how these games were played, click
here.
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