Self
Control: If a child cried out in fear, he or
she could give away the position of a hiding Ojibwa family. Children were
taught from babyhood to keep still. If they did not have a reason to be
noisy, then they were to keep quiet. They were not allowed to get upset.
Upset people can forget themselves. They can shout. Anyone who lost his or
her temper was acting in a "bad" manner. They were sure to hear
about it from grandfather in his night
messages.
Age
Names: The Ojibwa seemed to avoid using
names. Older relatives were called by their family names - Brother, Aunt,
Grandmother. Children had names that showed their position in the family.
Their name might be Number One Boy or Number Three Girl. These were not
the only names people had, but they were the first names they received. As
a brand new baby, your name might be Number Four Girl.
Charcoal Sad Faces: The
Ojibwa did not believe in spanking or hitting children. Nor did they keep
a child inside if they were bad. Instead, they patted the child's face
with charcoal, and sent the child outside to play. Everyone knew that the
charcoal meant the child was being sorry for something they had done.
Toys:
Stuffed animals were usually the first toys Ojibwa
children received. They were made with animal hide and fur and sweet grass
stuffing. Girls had birch bark dolls. Mothers and daughters sewed clothes
for their dolls. They made doll dishes. They prepared doll meals. This was
the way mothers taught very small children the skills they would need when
they got older. The boys were given little bows and arrows, and
instructions from the men on how to use them safely and effectively.